Pregnancy Guide for Couples: Week 42
Now that you are technically two weeks overdue, let’s talk about what options you may have at this time and how baby might be looking at week 42.
Usually by 42 weeks your baby is taking up a LOT of room, which means less room for amniotic fluid. Also, some placentas struggle to provide oxygen and nutrients the longer your baby is in the womb. The vernix that's been covering your baby for much of your pregnancy is likely almost all gone, so your baby's skin may appear wrinkly and peel after birth.
What’s Going on with Baby
At week 42, your baby is the size of a watermelon (still)
With baby taking up much space inside Mom’s abdomen, the placenta may not be giving as much nutrients and oxygen to baby. Chances are, there is very little amniotic fluid left around baby. These could be reasons why an induction may be required or recommended. Regarding weight, baby is probably weighing between 7 and 9 pounds on average. Their skin could be dry, wrinkled, or cracked, which is normal due to the vernix shedding weeks ago.
What’s Going on with Mom
As we discussed last week, your doctor will continue to monitor you and your baby closely. They’re likely to perform NSTs (non-stress tests) to ensure that baby is not under unhealthy pressure. Here’s more information about NSTs:
An electronic fetal monitor (EFM) is used to record baby’s heart rate
Baby’s movements are assessed in relation to their heart rate
NSTs usually last for about 20-30 minutes
The results of an NST are classified as “reactive” or “non-reactive.” Reactive means that baby’s heart rate accelerated appropriately with movement. Non-reactive means that baby’s heart rate did not accelerate as expected, and additional testing or monitoring may be required.
What’s going on with Partner
If you’re partially freaking out about caring for a baby you have never met, that’s okay. It’s very common for fathers to feel disconnected during pregnancy, whereas since mothers carry the child, they can have an immediate bond with them. Here are some ways to bond with baby after they’re born:
Skin-to-skin contact. This is a great way for Dad to bond with baby and beneficial!
Helping with feeding. Even if Mom is breastfeeding, Dad can help feed baby with breastmilk that Mom has pumped.
Diaper duty. Changing diapers might not sound fun, but it’s still an activity between you and your little one.
Bathing. Bathing can be an enjoyable experience for baby and Dad as he watches baby have fun.
Snuggling. You can’t pass up cuddles and snuggles!
Babywearing. Holding your baby close to your body can create a strong bond.
We’re proud of you, Dad!
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